Its Time....

Its Time... to make things happen,
Its Time... to think twice before baring my heart,
Its Time... to take myself seriously,
Its Time... to stop thinking about others,
Its Time... to believe that i am on my own,
Its Time... to take life "practically",
Its Time... to give space ( whatever that means),
Its Time... not to be taken for granted,
Its Time... to bring happiness back in my life,
Its Time... to be happy, and stay that way,
Its Time... to be strong,
Its Time... to move on.

Standing Tall... the need of the hour...

Not everything in my life is going on as it should be... infact.. to put it the otherway around.. there is hardly anything which is positive right now...

First up... My confirmation in my job has gotten delayed by 3 months ... ( which is a blessing in disguise... as i am looking for a change).. but it does leave a bad bad taste as to what wrong i am doing at my job... maybe an introspection is round the corner.

Secondly, things are not going too well with A .. yeah.. what started out to be a wonderful friendship and very very special one at that is slowly withering away.. is grasping out of my reach.. its so strange to see that now when we talk we hardly have anything to discuss.. or even carry out general conversations.. She is supposed to be my best friend.. but now it all seems like a distant memory.. when i think of the reason behind it.. its all too obvious..

yes.. i fell for my best friend.. besotted is the right word... and i dont regret it .. not one bit.. bcoz probably no-one in this world can tell me that it is wrong to fall in love.. yeah.. i stayed put in fantasyland when the writing was on the wall for me to see..

but i dont blame you for anything A, i understand ( i dont have a choice .. frankly!).. i want my buddy back.. and that can only happen when both want it that way...

and probably that is why i need to stand up to this... face it head on.. and move on... another chapter closes... I GIVE UP..

Answers anyone?

I have some questions to ask. . To ponder on. . Hoping that i will get answers from anyone who wishes to answer. . Needless to say that using my own brain for these things is a futile effort . . So . . Here goes . .
Has it ever happened to you that you get used to someone so badly that even a little bit of slip up from their part makes you wonder whats going on. . That you feel like being near that person 24/7. . And since that cannot happen all the time you feel all the more helpless. . Crap! Arbit rambling this. . My friends say that sometimes giving a bit of space is good. But what i wanna know is that how much space is too much. .
There are some people who stay faithful to their friends all the time.. And yet.. End up as nothing else than just great friend. When is the appropriate time to cross that line? Yes. . I am thinking again. . I am thinking too much . .

Diet Misconceptions :)

Q: Should I cut down on meat and eat more fruits and vegetables?
A: You must grasp logistical efficiencies. What does a lamb eat? Leaves and corn. And what are these? Vegetables.So a kabab is nothing more than an efficient mechanism of delivering vegetables to your system.
Need grain? Eat chicken.

Q: Should I reduce my alcohol intake?
A: No, not at all. Wine is made from fruit. Brandy is distilled wine, that means they take the water out of the fruity bit so you get even more of the goodness that way. Beer is also made out of grain. Its only the misconception, that narrow minded people have. So, Bottoms up!

Q: Aren't fried foods bad for you?
A: YOU'RE NOT LISTENING!!! Foods are fried these days in vegetable oil.How could getting more vegetables be bad for you?

Q: Is chocolate bad for me?
A: Are you crazy? HELLO..... Cocoa beans ... another vegetable ! It's the best feel-good food around!

Q: Is swimming good for your figure?
A: If swimming is good for your figure, explain whales to me.