Sunday, December 30, 2007

PDA

No.. dont worry .. this post is not going to be about this small zingy tablet/gadget which seemingly busy people carry with them in order to make them even more busy and important .. ;)

PDA .. in local parlance is Public Display Of Affection.. and with the holiday season on in full force, makes it all the more in-your-face...

Now, dont get me wrong here.. i believe all the hot dudes and dudettes out there that the undying and so deep that several titanics can drown in it.. but come on.. gimme a break.. being in love in fine... expressing love is even more fine.. but snuggling up and cosying up in public places!!! no guys .. that sucks!! hello! what are lodges/hotels/rooms made for..

Take a look around.. its everywhere... malls/cybercafes/trains!!! and obviously.. the multiplexes.. hell they even have couple seats these days.. how considerate is that now..

In aamchi mumbai.. we have the favourite lovers hangout spots.. the Bandstand and the Bandra Reclamation.. go have a look.. alone.. mind you.. u will find scores of couples all cosying up behind umbrellas, long jackets.. duppattas.. anything i tell ya..

I believe an expression of love can also be just holding hands.. or just being there.. in company of that special someone..

What say people.. agree or not?

16 comments:

Ashu said...

whats wrong in showing PDA ? it should be left to couples to decide....

MiNi said...

i agree it sucks big time.. i mean why do we have to go so over-board with affections...
i believe its all in the "eyes"
and they say it all... you dont need to be cozy to show that ur around..
the presence should be heart felt..!

MISS ILLUSION said...

personally i hv no prob wit anybody on de road doing PDA.
i understand dat ppl wnt love 2 b expressed as somthng more dan holding hands.
u said wot r hotels/rooms 4 den?
mayb dey don wanna go dat far either.
phew! it doesnt matter 2 me weter ppl do it or not.
but difficult 2 imagine myself doing it

c e e d y said...

Dude there cant be anything right or wrong - its compleltly on the couple - have you been in a real close relationship? if not maybe thats why you are asking these questions :)

happy new year and cheers

Jyoti said...

Absolutely correct!

Rahul... in City of Dreamz said...

@Ashu: But shouldnt the couples have the sense to not do something which embarrases ppl around them??

@Mini: Yup! :)

@Miss Illusion: But why would you be comfy with others doing it when you yourself wont do it?

@Ceedy: Dude. You dont know me do u??? Plz stop assuming.. and btw.. i have been in ur "Real Close" relationship for 3 yrs.. so i DO know a thing or two.

Just because a couple is together does not entitle them to trample about in public places..

@Jyoti: Thanks a ton. Finally someone agreed!! :)

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durjoy datta said...

yup!
gross!
but rooms/.../ are expensive!

Rahul... in City of Dreamz said...

@Durjoy: Yeah! Rooms are expensive... i guess thats why they have made parks dude ;)

Anjuli said...

i love PDA...u REALLy don't like it????????

and bandstand and bandra reclamation...I wrote something...read here...

http://maybeiamaddicted.blogspot.com/2007/12/my-wonderlandbandstand.html

Rahul... in City of Dreamz said...

@Anjuli: Just saw your post :)..

Even i love bandstand..have been there millions of times..

but dont get me wrong.. PDA to an extent of holding hands or such subtle stuff is ok..

But what goes on behind the rocks.. well you know it right??

Thats what i am talking about :)

Rahul... in City of Dreamz said...

@anjuli: Hey there seems to be some problem in ur blog.. i can seem to sign in and write a comment in it. do check!

Anjuli said...

will check, by the way, I am here...heheheh...coincidence kehte hain ise!

Anjuli said...

allelo...date to dekhi nahin maine....tune to yeh 9th ko likha tha....

Rahul... in City of Dreamz said...

@anjuli- ;).. duffer! :)

Anjuli said...

@raaaoooolllll: :-P